Mukesh Bhavsar on Lejhim Khelnari Pora (review)
Mukesh Bhavsar on Lejhim Khelnari Pora (review)
Director and Set Designer: Abhijeet Zunjarrao (Contactfirstname.lastname@example.org)
Writer: Sanjay Krushnaji Patil
Cast: Neha Ashtaputre, Durgesh Budhkar, Rahul Shirsat, Ketan Fad, Roshan More, Sonali Magar, Babu Aavade, Darshana Rasaal and Shreyas Meshram
Music– Viraj Zunjarrao Lights– Jaydeep Apte
Presented By Abhinay, Kalyan
Posted in Change, marathi play, poems, Thoughts
Tagged abhijit zunzarrao, abhinay kalyan, kavita ani natak, lejhim khelnari pora, lejhim khelnari pora review, marathi natak review, mukesh bhavsar articles, sanjay krushnaji patil
Did I want to be a civil engineer? Of course not… I wanted to be a superman…! Wanted to join army and protect my beloved country. But then things don’t always happen the way we dream… do they? Ok… From the very first day I was told that I had to concentrate and focus and work hard and understand and do all of this at the same time… After all my name is just Mukesh with no Ambani at the back! So I would go to the class daily filled with all types of people and try to do all these things together… I would end up staring at the teacher with an expression of constipation. They sure would remember me… my ways have been weird. I used to say there is difference between education and learning… and they used to laugh at me… But I felt pity for them for not understanding the essence of education… Sometimes I tried to tell them if students are not paying attention in class the teachers are equally responsible for failing to create interest in students! I would tell my boring teachers that I might bunk few lectures and just meet the norm of 75% attendance… Instead of looking at my honesty and reflect on the quality of education they have provided, they would tag me as a rude student and unofficially give me less Marks in the internal assessments… Because they were gurus! They used to do their job to ‘deliver’ lectures… But those long painful hours while drawing sheets and writing assignments made me cry. Took precious fun and learning away from those intellectual books, talks, seminars, music shows and everything I used to do…
“Do you have a girlfriend? Are you virgin?” many people tend to ask me in Mumbai… Never ask such questions… I didn’t even made good friends in those ‘5 years’ of engineering! Not even from my class mates! There were exams…. Fat books… hundreds of concepts… thousands of numerical and speculation by those who had the power to speculate… “Is baar ye pakka aayega 15 marks ke liye” 🙂 The look that everybody had just before the exam… Cannot be expressed in words… A day before the results… Nobody would utter a word that could upset another living soul… they told me god is watching… even though I don’t know now even if he exists or not… Not only was it important to pass… it was important for everybody to pass… Somebody would still fail… but why its me all the time??
My teacher asked me once- Mukesh what will you do in life? What do you want to become? I said,” ma’am, I want to be a good human. I want to follow my interests. Pet ke liye kuch na kuch dhang ka to kar hi lunga!” and I did, for next three years I worked with some of the best organizations experimenting in education, even got a chance to work as a teaching assistant in Manchester University..!
But there is this invention called money… and you are expected to earn it and forget that money is for you… You are not for money! Then there was office… No offence intended… a labour knows work better than any (fresher) engineer on site… I went there clueless… Then the boss would ask us to do something that even he fails to understand and even though you know nothing about what’s going on in this world you still do it..! Perfectly sometimes. I didn’t give a damn what amount of money I earn… Every month the company kept putting money in my bank account… I was interested in learning… I experimented with life… I had tough time… Many left… some new joined… I was interested in low cost housing and bamboo… but who else? Everybody wanted to build towers in cities… For the sake of building CV I was also on the so called ‘World’s tallest residential project’. For the luxury known to only those who have money!
Everything could go wrong… Never did… I did not come here to make friends… Or to please people… But things don’t happen the way we say… do they… I made many friends…. I fell in love… she left… I gathered my bits and pieces and started walking again… And I met few good people again… I sing with Avril ‘if you wanna bring me down.. Go ahead and try. Go ahead and try!’
Even now many of my friends are married… My Facebook Wall keeps showing where did they go for honeymoon and what type of car they bought… But it doesn’t speak about the heavy loan they have on their head! And here I am still looking for something real and meaningful in life… Then in 2015 I joined a management program of my choice in the institute I loved a lot… After fighting alot with situation and parents! But things remained the same! Did I ever grow up? Did I really learn anything because of these top engineering and masters degrees? What did I get, what did I loose? You have chosen the other, so called safe path… Tell me are you happy my friend?
It starts with platonic love, it’s love beyond physical attachment, the existence of love despite impossibilities and challenges. The type of love Plato seems to have admired most was that in which one man loved another because of his intelligence or virtue, rather than because of his physical attractions- a love of the idea of beauty more than the physical appearance, and a love of a person is a lesser love to that of absolute beauty, the ideal form.
‘I love you’ means that I accept you for the person that you are, and that I do not wish to change you into someone else… It means that I will love you and stand by you even through the worst of times!
Even Marilyn Monroe says- ” I’m selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can’t handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don’t deserve me at my best!”
Love means loving you when you’re in a bad mood or too tired to do things I want to do. It means loving you when you’re down, not just when you’re fun to be with. I love you means that I know your deepest secrets and do not judge you for them, asking in return only that you do not judge me for mine. It means that I care enough to fight for what we have and that I love you enough not to let go. It means thinking of you, dreaming of you, wanting and needing you constantly, hoping you feel the same way for me… but not losing focus on our self… Our own dreams…When I say I love you, I mean to say you’re always there… there to catch me when I fall… there to listen when I need you, there when I feel alone. I love you because you understand me… you know how I feel even when I can’t say it… you know I’m not as strong as I say and still you never let me know that I’m not fooling you. I love you because you make me believe, believe that I am not worthless… You make me believe that I can make difference! believe that I can be loved, am loved, and can love others. I love you because you know, you know I feel this way but can’t say it and still you wait… letting me take my time to come to terms with the fact that I love you… would give my life up to be with you… and above all… never hurt you… lie to you… deceive you… or leave you. All of the above applies to you as well.
Now I hope you understand…
Posted in love, Thoughts, Values
Tagged Jean Paul Sartre, Kahlil Gibran, Marilyn Monroe, Mukesh Bhavsar, Plato, Platonic, Platonic Love, relationship, Simone de beauvoir
लोकांच सरकार नावाचं रसायन
भलतंच बुवा अजब असतं!
गरिबाला झोपडी नसताना यात
राजकारण्यांच महल असतं!
जातीधार्मातला सरकार मिटवू पाहत भेद,
कास्ट सर्टिफिकेटच त्याला भलमोठ छेद!
anti corruption मोहिमेतही होत इथे करप्शन,
काळ्याचे ‘पांढरे’ करण्याचे बरेच सरकारी ऑप्शन!
अंगात खादी, डोक्यावर गांधी टोपी
लोकात मिरवायची पद्धत साधी सोपी!
मध्यमवर्गीयालाच राहिलंय खाकीचा धाक
मदमस्त हत्तींवर ‘पंजाचा’ हात!
उगीचच हा त्रास का आपण सोसतोय?
अश्यांना निवडून आज पस्तावतोय!
असं हे इथे कधीपर्यंत चालायचं?
‘सत्यमेव जयते’ला असत्यानं ‘राम राम’ ठोकायच?
Its 30 December 2012 and we all are ready to say goodbye 2012! Yatris on train didn’t know that their new year will end up with a big surprise trip to a Indian Navy Ship. Every yatri is damn excited after our visit to Visakhapatanam dock because almost everyone of us have been on a Naval ship for the first time in life. It was INS Shakti! INS Shakti, the second of the two fleet tankers built by Fincantieri Shipyard of Italy for the Indian navy. 36000 HP, dual engine huge ship! Today we have 4 such ships and around 170 ships in total with Indian Navy. INS Shakti has RADAR range of 120 kms with speed of 21 nautical miles. It can carry 15,000 tonnes of liquid cargo (water, ship and aircraft fuel) and 500 tonnes of solid cargo (victuals and ammunition). The modern cargo handling facility on board the ship enables transfer of heavy solid cargo via a 30 tonne capacity deck crane, and simultaneous fueling of multiple ships at sea. It also had AK630 guns of 4 km firing range though it isn’t a war ship. INS Shakti takes 15 officers and 220 others for various roles when goes into sea for sailing. This visit is making me nostalgic and remind me of Liverpool dock I visited last year. Watching UK navy medals, big hangers, ship models, some precious things like boarding pass of Einstein and original items from Titanic are also kept in the Liverpool Maritime Museum. Watching big ships, neatly dressed navy officers and listening to those horns is altogether different feeling.
It was surprising as well as overwhelming experience for all of us to board on the ship and see its functions. Talk to dashing Navy officers raised spirits of yatris as they were requested to talk on leadership. We could easily see the proud on face of the captain of the ship. It was very obvious that he was really enjoying what he is doing. Now I am sure everyone will boastfully tell their parents and friends about how they went on a Navy ship and no doubt tonight there will be hundreds of posts on Facebook about this experience 🙂
Today we had one of the first women entrepreneur on our stage as a role model. You are right- Mrs. Kiran Majumdar Shaw! It is with great perseverance and confidence, that Kiran Mujumdar Shaw, the chairman and Managing Director of Biocon Limited has become one of most successful entrepreneurs in India today. Biocon Ltd is a biotechnology company based in Bengaluru. She started this company in 1978, when Biotechnology was a little know concept. Later she established two subsidiaries: Syngene, a custom research organization, and Clinigene, a clinical research organization. Biocon currently works in four therapeutic areas- Diabetology, Cardioloogy, Nephrology and Oncology. Today, Biocon, Syngene and Clinigene combined employ approximately 4500 personnel including biologists, chemists, medical practitioners, pharmacologists, engineers and so on. Kiran Majumdar Shaw has been awarded with Padma Shri in 1989 and Padma Bhushan in 2005.
Mrs. Shaw very honestly accepted that she didn’t have plan and became entrepreneur by accident in mans world. It was the time when highly education people wanted to move out of country. Engineering, PhD holders didn’t have jobs which will give them challenge and do justice. She started her company literally in a garage and faced lot of people giving her are you kidding me kind of looks when she used to say I am the MD who will be interviewing you.
It took a lot for Kiran to pioneer biotech in India and Biocon now is top 20 global biotech companies. Mrs. Shaw wanted to become doctor but she is happier to see that she have much more than what she could have done as a doctor. It was her honesty and integrity which amazed all in the auditorium and left us inspired to make the difference…